Tuesday, February 10, 2009 By: JMimie

I Wonder Why...I Wonder How...


Of all people in the whole wide world, I wonder why we are so prone to hurt the one that we love most? Why do we easily get irritated and over sensitive when our loved ones make those little - usually too trivial to be pondered on - mistakes when we can manage a grin, although forcefully, to a visitor's kid that breaks our precious vase? We can even speak sweetly and considerately to a stranger but a bitter and painful remark to our beloved when in anger. Can we call this a type of hypocrisy? or perhaps this is just our human nature which is out of our control and thus we are helpless to change anything about it? Hemm...why and how ahh...

Note: "Whatever you want people to do for you, do the same for them"

7 comments:

Little Mike said...

berkomunikasi la dengan siapa orang yg kita sayangi... sensitif mempunyai nilai tertentu.. yg bermaksud ada pertalian perasaan dgn org yg mimie sayangi..

apa pn, jgn pendam.. ekspresikan apapn bentuk rasa kerana itu sebahagian daripada cara. kemampuan mengekspresikan rasa membuatkan kita belajar dua perkara

mengenai diri dan seseorang yg lain...

teringat lagu lemon tree... hehe

JMimie Mabin said...

Setuju..jgn suka pendam2..hehe..selalunya karakter ini sgt sinonim dgn wanita..memendam rasa tapi pd masa yg sama mgharapkn rasa yg ada dlm hati difahami oleh sebelah pihak..lagi teruk klu pujukan yg dinanti2kan tdk kunjung tiba..alamat makan hati berulam jantung la jwbnya..hahaha

pasal sensitif ni pula..mungkin ada penerangan tertentu kenapa tahap sensitiviti kita boleh berubah2 dari tahap 'biasa2' bertukar mjadi 'kritikal'/over sensitive terhadap org2 tertentu terutamanya yg disayangi la tu..
mungkinkah wanita ni klu makin tua..makin sensitif..hehe..macam terbalik pula..sepatutnya lbh matang bhadapan dgn emosi sendiri/org lain..

Dr. Nellson Maisin said...

I think that's why we called them 'loved one'. To other people, we don't really feel the bondage. So, we don't really feel the pain when they hurt us. But to a 'loved one' the bond is very strong. Therefore even a 'trivial' error will produce such a 'huge' heart's break.

Note: Don't worry. It only proves how love means so much to us. ;)

Little Mike said...

ison,

i agreed... :)

JMimie Mabin said...

tq ison! obisa bala ong duktur no manaak dot 'love prescription' bo..hehe.. awasi ino komen nu.. kensasamod do ginawo mambasa..

**the more i get to know what real love is the more i understand how much it means a lot to me.. suddenly, everything seems make sense..haha

Umar al-Longobi said...

mimie,

itulah yg dikatakan sebagai `the power of love`, hehe. in other cases, the highest love of all finds it`s fulfillment not in what it keeps, but in what it gives. bah, palan-palan bah. :-)

JMimie Mabin said...

Hehe...palan2 ka Umar..there's a saying.."for love is strong as death"..jadi kpd sesiapa yg sedang bercinta atau planning to..handle 'it' with extra care..hahaha

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